use your own brain
I got pregnant last year and delivered my baby this February. When people ask me how I think about pregnancy and being a mom, I told all of them that getting pregnant and being a mom are both incredible thing. After I got pregnant, my brain was full of all kinds of questions and curiosity. After I delivered the baby, the nurse told me that the difficult part just started now. The baby is more than 2 months old now. I found that every baby is unique, other people’s experience is just for other babies, I have to use my own eyes to read my own baby’s expression and understand that with my own brain. During the first month, Daddy and grandma thought my baby was too hot because her hair looked sweat, then they tried to dress her with thin cloths and tuck her in with thin blankets. You know, in March of NY, it is the coldest time of the year. For so many days, my baby looked so fussy. They say she is a fussy baby and getting spoiled. Now I found out that she likes being warm so much and looks so happy even when she is sweating. I feel sorry about that the first month she was almost frozen to death. Being a mom is not so easy, we need parenting advice, but do not forget to use your own brain to think about any expression that your baby conveyed to you.