When I went to university, I studied Japanese. One of the teachers was an old Japanese man who was a principal of an elementary school in Japan. One day in order to explain the meaning of the Japanese idiom (高嶺の花, it means a flower on a lofty height, beyond someone’s reach), he used his first love to help us to understand. He told us that there was a beautiful girl sitting next to him when he was in elementary school. He loved her so much, but because she was so beautiful and so popular, he had no chance to tell her his feeling. When we heard that his first love was in elementary school, we got shocked. After the story, he asked the classmates about what time our first love was, we had nothing to answer.
At that time, as a university student, not so many people really even had boyfriends and girl friends. We thought, in elementary school, we even did not know what the exact meaning love has. In the class, that we were told to love the country, love communist party, love the plants did not mean that we understood that, just because we told to do so, otherwise we would get scolded and bad scores in the end of the term.
In university time, I confessed my feeling to a high school classmate who was in a far away place. This thing ended in a way that he sent me a letter say that he did not know what love was and since he was university now and he had no time to think about anything else.
We always think in this world there must be a person who matches you and can live with you forever in a peaceful way. In Chinese, we say that is the other half of you. If you still did not meet your other half in your life, come and search for free. The signup is free. Come on, the other half is waiting for you now.
